What will He say about me..

I had a thought one day of what I want my tombstone to say. Yes, thats a morbid thought, I know, but what can I say, I was just glad I wasn't thinking about dirty clothes, dishes, diapers, floors, ect. Anyway.  I was thinking of all the tombstones that I have seen, and have read, and some were meaningful, others were short-n-sweet, so I wanted to plan what mine would say. I didn't want to leave it up to my kids or husband, not because of the grief they would be going through, but I can only imagine what they would say about me. Anyhow, this is how I would like my stone to read, "Loving wife, mom, daughter, sister, friend" but the more I thought about this I came to the conclusion, it isn't going to matter how my tombstone reads, I need to be concerned about what my fanily and friends say about me now. I need to know now that I make my husband proud that he married me, that I'm true to him, and treat him with the upmost respect and honor that he deserves. I want to know that my kids respect me, and even though I am not a perfect mom, I love them, and I try my best to be a good mom to them. I want to know that my parents are also proud of me, and the woman I am today, even if I had a rough start at doing things God's way. I also have a brother, and I mant to know that he is glad we share, or shared, the same last name. As for my friends I would like them to say that, I am always there for them if not in person, in prayer, that I'm loyal, and encouraging. I would love think that those things are being thought about me, and not for the glory that I would get, but for the glory God would get, becaue for those things to be said about me I have to be, first and foremost, a daughter that my Heavenly Father, my sweet precious Jesus Christ, can be proud of.  

"A good name is to be choosen rather than great riches, Loving favor than silver and gold"
                                           Proverbs 22:1

"Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, But a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised."
                                            Proverbs 31:30